Mastering Your Company / Accepting Is Not Tolerating
I separated from most of the people I used to spend time with, I skimmed off because you can’t fill a full bottle, it’s part of working on yourself, you have to clean house to make room for new ideas. Among my friends, I felt that some were ascending through their questions, their open-mindedness and above all their non-judgment, their tolerance. Sometimes I was wrong, I thought the person was on this path through their curiosity and was in full ascension, and in the end they’re perfectly comfortable in their 3D so I accept it. And there’s no other way to accept it than to separate from it. Don’t confuse accepting with putting up with. Accepting the state of mind of a pre-human doesn’t require spending time with them. Why? Because spending time with a lower frequency than ours inevitably brings us down in frequency, so when you have understood ascension and have chosen this path, well there is a work of detachment to do in order to be consistent with yourself. Detaching from the 3D is also detaching from 3D states of mind, therefore from most of the people we hang out with who don’t ascend at our pace and will only slow us down. At the beginning we want the people around us to discover ascension, we supposedly want to help them. But actually we are mostly afraid of detaching from them and working alone on ourselves, which is an unavoidable step to learn to master our little ego, this little pride that wants to shout to everyone that it has understood and knows everything. If it is truly a feeling of Love that makes you want to help them get out of drugs or the numbing of 3D of all kinds, remember that time doesn’t exist, that their turn will come when realizations will be offered to them, and that they will be responsible for their choice to accept them or not. You are not responsible for their ascension, and if they choose to stay comfortable in their beliefs and their illnesses, accept to detach from them, otherwise it will pull you down. That is your empathy, which you will also have to learn to master.
In the meantime, let them live as they wish, you can’t advocate non-judgment while judging them. It is by radiating your coherence with yourself that realizations will happen.
Detaching from the people you hang out with doesn’t mean writing off all social life. It doesn’t rule out creating a new social life. And in between, it is precisely the opportunity to work alone on yourself in order to become deeply aware of the stage you are at and then be drawn to other company.
Ascension is not suppressing the 3D, it is ceasing to feed it, and letting it become what it must become
How? Play dead. If they insist, tell them the whims of their little personality are secondary. Above all don’t justify yourself, it would create a discussion that would exhaust you, unless you deeply feel listening, open-mindedness and above all tolerance. Then maybe they are on the path of ascension in consciousness. It’s up to you to discern whether they are truly open and tolerant. There may also be emergencies. But apart from these rare exceptions, remember that you owe no account to anyone and that nothing obliges you to put up with them. Don’t get trapped by their judgments like “you’re closing yourself off”, you know very well that you’re working on your humility while they are only judging you because they are afraid. Just radiate peace.
